Patricia Rose Herman, nee Chomer, age 80, beloved wife for 57 years to Thomas J. Herman. Loving mother of Colleen (John) Dooley, Sandra (Christopher) Cella, Megan (Thomas) Murray and Katie (Edward) Adamczyk. Cherished grandmother of Joseph, Luke (Kristin), Hannah (Joe), Maverick, Patrick, Emily, Reilly, Kaitlyn, Ryan and Madelyn. Dearest great-grandmother of Giavanna. Devoted daughter of the late Charles and Mary Chomer. Survived by her sister Charlene Kohlman and preceded in death by Gene Chomer, Mary Catherine Haugh and Shirley Hedges.
Born on November 16, 1944, in Chicago to Charles and Mary Chomer, Pat was the youngest of five children.
She was raised in the Catholic Church and spent her childhood in Mount Greenwood and attended St. Willibrord High School. Pat married Thomas (Tom) Herman in 1967 and had 4 girls. She was an amazing grandmother to 10 grandchildren and 1 great grandchild.
As a stay-at-home mom for many years, she delighted in cooking and baking, specially creating delicious desserts and the best Thanksgiving stuffing. Family vacations were filled with many spontaneous road trips to Florida. Pat had a special place in her heart for making her family smile, particularly her granddaughter Reilly Anne.
A fun-loving, easygoing spirit, Pat was known for her adventurous nature and caring personality. She was a peacemaker, thoughtful gift giver, a very good listener, and inquisitive with many thoughtful questions. Pat always prioritized the needs of others before herself. She always connected to those who were struggling as her compassion had no bounds.
Her Irish heritage was dear to her and had the cherished opportunity to visit her grandparents' land in Ireland. Pat was a passionate walker and enjoyed traveling. She also enjoyed celebrating holidays with family with sentimental traditions and a house always decorated for every occasion. Her legendary “Oreo Cookie Ice Cream” cake was the hit at every family celebration! Pat and Tom also loved visiting their dearest friends at the Legion in Tinley Park, where everyone knows their name.
Pat never complained, even when she was struggling with her own pain. She never wanted to burden another soul. She could outlast everyone at a party as her energy was endless. Pat’s adventurous spirit, kind heart, and smile will be greatly missed by all who knew her. She was also especially passionate about the Tunnels to Towers Foundation, supporting those who serve and protect.
Pat was blessed by many loving and caring people who showed her God's love during her 80+ years on this earth. We know she is now sitting at the right hand of the Father, in peace, love, and grace beyond what we can imagine. From the wise words of Patricia, “If you want to be happy, make someone happy!”
A Celebration of Life will be held privately at a later date.
To honor her life, donations in memory of Patricia can be made to Tunnels to Towers Foundation, 2361 Hylan Blvd., Staten Island, NY 10306 are appreciated.
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