Jay “Bud” Frieling, age 71, beloved husband for 48 years of Shirley, nee Reitsma. Loving father of Robert (Kim), Laura (David) Ipema, Linda (David) Schaver, Thomas (Mary), and Sandra (Eric) Washington. Dear grandfather of Lauren, James, Hope, Robert, Kayla, Mateo, and Marcus Frieling; Melissa, Michelle, Steven, and Melanie Ipema; Kyle, Danny, Lindsey, and Kelsey Schaver; Kaitlyn, Zachary, and Anna Frieling; Samantha and Isabella Washington. Fond brother of Eldene (Herman) Doff, Martin (Janice), Florence (the late Harry) Van Dyken, and Karen (John) Wierenga. Dear brother-in-law of Robert (Connie) Reitsma and Mara (David) Mulder. Dear uncle of many nieces and nephews. Former owner of Wentworth Tire Service. Visitation Sunday 3-9PM at Colonial Chapel 15525 S. 73rd Ave (155th/Wheeler Dr. & Harlem) Orland Park. Lying in State Monday from 10:00a.m. until time of funeral service 11:00 a.m. at Calvary Church of Orland Park, 15101 S. 80th Ave. Interment private at Fairmount-Willow Hills Cemetery, Willow Springs, IL. Memorials to Calvary Church Growing in Grace Fund or Southwest Chicago Christian Schools preferred. Express your thoughts and condolences at www.colonialchapel.com 708-532-5400