Becky Pluister

Becky Pluister, a proud Christian and true Southside Chicagoan with unmatched chutzpah, passed away at the age of 61, leaving behind a legacy of love, tenacity, and unapologetic authenticity.

Becky was a force of nature, living many lives within her own. Her vibrant personality and determination were the hallmarks of her character, beloved by many who knew her. A fighter at heart, she would back into any corner life pushed her into and come out swinging, not just for herself but for anyone she loved.

As a mother of six, wife, and caretaker of her extended family, Becky's well of love knew no bounds. While she won't be remembered for her housekeeping skills, her home was a sanctuary for those navigating life's messiest moments. She was the rock and lighthouse for many, offering unwavering support and guidance on how to embrace all of life, even the messy parts.

Becky's impact extended far beyond her family. She was an organizer, leader, and lover of humanity. Her generous spirit led her to support numerous non-profits and individuals in need. Known for making U-turns or impromptu (her kids would say sketchy) stops, she went out of her way to ensure that no person in need went unseen, unsupported or unloved.

As a grandmother, Becky took pride in creating magical moments for her grandchildren. Her spirit shined the brightest when she was with her babies. Her mischievous nature and ability to find joy in every situation made her beloved among young and old alike.

Urban legend leads us to believe that Becky inspired the saying, "You mess with the bull, you get the horns." Her fierce loyalty and fearless approach to life made her the person you wanted in your corner during life's wildest rides.

Becky's philosophy was simple yet profound: kick life's ass, be your most authentic self, and remember that love is worth giving away as long as you're giving yourself love too. Her mantra, "Carpe Diem," was not just words but a way of life she embodied every day.

As we bid farewell to this extraordinary woman, we carry forward her spirit of fearlessness, her ferocious appetite for life, and her capacity for boundless love. Becky's fire and loyal love will remain unmatched in the hearts of those she touched.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that you perform an act of kindness for someone in need, step outside of your comfort zone to help a stranger, or simply live life with the same fierce authenticity that Becky exemplified every day. Becky would have also loved for donations in her memory be made to Manna Ministry ( CLICK HERE TO DONATE ONLINE - please select "Manna Ministry" in the "Fund" dropdown box) or you can mail your memorial and make your check payable to The Grove Church, Manna Ministry in memo line, 6600 Fairview Ave., Downers Grove, IL 60516.

Becky is survived by her husband of 39 years David Pluister, her six children, Megan (Tony) DeTratto, Rachael (Frank) Nyquist, Jacob (Rachel) Pluister, Zechariah Pluister, Hannah Pluister and Katherine (Dustin Mays) Pluister, and her eight grandchildren Jackson, Maksim, Nina, Isabella, Harley, Danica, Heidi and Edward. She is also survived by her mother Elaine Maurer and her siblings, Eddie Maurer, Cheryl Zalatoris and Tom Maurer. Becky is preceded in death by her father Ed Maurer.

A visitation to celebrate Becky's life will be held at Colonial Chapel 15525 S. 73rd Ave. (155th/Wheeler Dr. & Harlem Ave.) Orland Park on Sunday, December 15, 2024 from 2- 7pm. A Celebration of Life Service will take place on Monday, December 16, 2024, 10:30am at Colonial Chapel. All are welcome to join in remembering and celebrating this remarkable woman.

Below is a photo tribute celebrating Becky's life.



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