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Calvin Singletary
In Memory of
Calvin C.
Singletary
1947 - 2017
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Condolence From: Brandon O'Daniell
Condolence: Mr. and Mrs. Singletary have been a second set of parents, as well as significant influences throughout almost 30 years of my life. "Mr. and Mrs. S" became surrogate parents of mine when Kevin became a best friend in 7th grade - that's also when they began buying enough food for a 5th member of their family. Our parent's also became best friends through sports and a mutual admiration for each other's children. Through the years, Mr. and Mrs. S have had such a profound impact on me and our group of friends through our conversations, shared experiences and wisdom that they imparted upon us. This was as broad as shaping the prism through which we view the world (with patience and understanding even when it isn't "fair") to as precise as to how one treats their neighbors or their son's and daughter's friends (like family).

It is nearly impossible to separate Mr. and Mrs. S, even in this note, as they were the best of partners for 46 years. That said, what an incredible life Mr. S has had: brilliant, thoughtful and charismatic children, a very loving and lifelong marriage, countless amazing life experiences, the ability to defend our country in Vietnam, a phenomenal education (the importance of which he passed on to Kevin and Kim) and the ability to meet his grandchildren. That is an incredible blessing and a life fulfilled. On a lighter note, he deserves some serious kudos for videotaping hundreds of hours of Kevin's football and wrestling and Kimmy's gymnastics and judo with a 50 lb VHS dumbbell on his shoulder! He rarely, if ever, missed a match or a game. I was so happy and blessed to have recently had the opportunity to spend time with Mr. and Mrs. S and for our son to have met his surrogate grandparents. In a classic quote, he said about our son: "Wow that little guy has great hair and those suckers on the wrestling mats are going to get pinned!" Even when he was sick he had time for a joke. He was equally a great man and a role model for how I hope my children view me as a parent.

I am eternally indebted to the Singletary family for all that I was able to experience with Mr. S. We are all so lucky to have had him in our lives, he was one of the few GREAT men I've known. Thank you for sharing his influence and I promise to pay that forward.

Praying for peace and comfort for each of you...

With love,

-Brandon O'Daniell
Monday June 19, 2017
Condolence From: Mike Pinto
Condolence: I have many fond memories of Mr. Singletary. He was a gracious host when we were invited into the Singletary house and I would often sit with him while watching Kevin's football games. He will be missed, but we are glad he lived a long, productive life. His greatest legacy will be the two fine children that he raised.
Monday June 19, 2017
Condolence From: Gene & Joy Dzieginski
Condolence: Gene and I send our deepest condolences for the loss of Cal. Your entire family is in our thoughts and in our prayers. He had the greatest sense of humor and always had a smile on his face. HIs barbecues were next to none!! I know he is looking down on all of you. Now you have your own guardian angel.
Monday June 19, 2017
Condolence From: John and Cathy Eagleton
Condolence: Our deepest sympathies on the loss of Cal. We will always have fond memories of what a devoted parent and husband he was and his great sense of humor. You are in our thoughts and prayers. John and Cathy
Monday June 19, 2017
Condolence From: Esther Voss
Condolence: I will remember Cal for his positive attitude, winning grin and his challenge to make whatever food was mentioned to prove it was indeed edible and point worthy. Tuesday morning meetings are not the same without Cal. My prayers are with the family.
Sunday June 18, 2017
Condolence From: Yolanda Bradley
Condolence: I first had the pleasure of meeting the Singletary crew that day at Chicago O'Hara when Kim and I headed to London. Little did I know that day would be the start of being welcome into the family and knowing such great people. Cal, who I always referred to as Mr. S, was such a special man. I loved his humor which, I say confidently carries on through Kim and Kevin. I felt his warmth and support immediately and remained even when life carried me in different places further way from the midwest. I know God has his reasons but I will miss Mr. S so much. My prayers to all who are trying to find their way though this loss. May your memories provide some comfort.

To Mrs. S., Kim and Kevin, thank you for sharing such a great person with me. We love you all dearly.

Love
Yolanda
Sunday June 18, 2017
Condolence From: Rob Skubic
Condolence: I have known Kevin for over 25 years; to be good friends with Kevin is basically to be adopted into the Singletary family. Back in our "heyday" our families spent lots of time together through the various sporting seasons. While divorce rates hovered in the 50% range back then, I think that rate was much, much higher amongst our circle of friends. The brightest exception, of course, was Dean and Cal. Even to a self-centered teenager, it was obvious that their love was unconditional - not only amongst themselves, but for Kevin, Kim and their entire family. The fact their marriage persevered for 46 years is a testament to their honesty, integrity and faith. By parenting with an effective combination of humor and sternness, Cal and Dean have successfully passed on those traits to Kim and Kevin, and they look well on their way to the grandkids as well. I often use Dean and Cal's relationship as the template by which I structure my own marriage and parenting style, which is by my measure the highest honor I can give.

It was my honor to have known Cal. He is the only person I recall who I laughed with every single time I talked with him. He was one of a kind!!! Rest in Peace, my friend!!!

My sincerest condolences to Dean, Kim, Kevin, Kellie and the rest of the Singletary family. I like to remember two quotes in times like these - (i) Don't cry because its over, smile because it happened and (ii) don't count the time, make the time count. Mr. Singletary certainly gave me my share of smiles, so I hope you remember those you shared with him. I have no doubt you guys all made the time with him count.
Saturday June 17, 2017
Condolence From: Shevawn Johnson
Condolence: Mr Singletary...I am at a lost for words. You have been a part of my life since I was 5 and you always put a smile on my face. I don't ever think I saw you mad.You were always joking about my height or something but you always kept me laughing. I'm am going to miss coming over for those laughs and your BBQ and Beans. My heart is heavy but I know you are not suffering and you are at peace so for that I am grateful. You will be greatly missed. I love you Mr. Singletary.

Saturday June 17, 2017
Condolence From: Michelle (Reichert) Venhuizen
Condolence: My deepest sympathy on your loss of husband and father. I am so sorry to hear about Cal. I am hoping to get over to see you but if I do not make it...please know that you are in my prayers.

With much love and sadness,

Michelle (Reichert) Venhuizen
Friday June 16, 2017
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